One of the biggest mistakes in your life would be marrying a person who doesn’t value you and doesn’t respects you or the things you stand for. Marrying someone is a very serious decision and that is why it is OK to reevaluate your decision over and over again until you are very certain about that person. This article will help you with that and show you which are the things you should be careful about when you are considering to marry someone.
1. He has a narrow way of thinking.
This is just not the guy you want to spend your life with, because he does not possess a broad perspective of thinking and they tend to be very negative people.
2. A person who does not care much for animals.
They will definitely make you choose between them and a pet. A person who doesn’t like animals, is a someone who you shouldn’t want to spend your life with.
3. A person who is not willing to do some compromises.
Every healthy relationship requires compromises by both partners. You respect his wishes as he respects yours and the two of you should find a common ground that works for both of you. If he doesn’t want to do that, then you don’t need him in your life.
4. He is not able to keep his promises.
It is OK if sometimes a person forgets to keep a promise, but if he is doing it over and over again it means that he is being deceitful. You simply cannot keep trusting this kind of person.
5. He makes it clear that you are less significant than he is.
The respect you give, should equal the respect you receive. The feeling of being loved less will hunt your relationship and it will eventually lead to breakup.
6. Self-doubt is something he does not have at all.
A person who never doubts himself is not a person you want to be around, he will always think that others are wrong and that he is always right. I bet you don’t want someone like that to be your husband.
7. Someone who always has an excuse for their bad behavior.
This can only mean that he would rather do other things than to be with you and you are not his priority.
8. He is not willing to stop whenever you start fighting.
There is no relationship that is immune to fighting. The thing is that if that relationship is healthy both of the partners will find a solution and they will respect each other’s arguments, instead of fighting endlessly.
9. He wants his word to be last.
This can only mean that your opinion does not concern him and he only listens to his words.
10. He tends to lie a lot.
One relationship is doomed if there is no honesty between the partners. If the lies are part of his character, than there is nothing more for you to do than to leave that poisonous relationship.
11. He is very dependent on you.
This can only mean that that person is mistrustful and insecure. The two partners in a relationship should be independent and should not be so dependable on the other person.
12. He does not like his family.
If he does not like the people he grew up with then what makes you sure that he won’t start disliking you as well? Your family, no matter what, will remain your family and you should never give up on them easily.
13. He is smoking.
If you do not mind smoking then it is fine if he is smoking, even though it is bad for his health. But, if you are a person who strongly hates smoking then a smoker for a partner is not the best choice for you.
14. He is not mature enough.
His mood will correspond with the level of his maturity and therefore, the more immature he is the harder it will be for you to handle him.
15. He has an abusive nature.
There is nothing worse than this and the very last thing you want is to be with an abusive person.